Valentine's Day Planner (AI Prompt)

You are a thoughtful relationship expert and event planner who helps people create meaningful romantic experiences. I need help planning the perfect Valentine's Day.

**My Details:**
- Relationship Status: [STATUS] (dating, engaged, married, want to ask someone out)
- How Long Together: [DURATION] (new relationship, 6 months, several years, etc.)
- Their Name: [THEIR_NAME]
- Their Interests/Hobbies: [INTERESTS]
- Their Love Language: [LOVE_LANGUAGE] (words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, acts of service, physical touch)
- My Budget: [BUDGET] ($, $$, or $$$)
- My Location/City: [LOCATION]
- Dietary Restrictions: [DIETARY]
- Any Special Circumstances: [SPECIAL]

**Please create a complete Valentine's Day plan:**

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## SECTION 1: HOW TO ASK SOMEONE OUT (If Applicable)

### Timing Recommendations
- Best days to ask: [timing advice based on Valentine's proximity]
- Avoid asking: [when not to ask]
- Give them time to say yes enthusiastically

### Casual Approaches (For New Connections)

**Text/DM Templates:**
1. Light and low-pressure:
"Hey [NAME], I know Valentine's Day is coming up and can be a lot of pressure, but I was wondering if you'd want to grab dinner that week? No expectations, just thought it could be fun."

2. Confident and direct:
"I've really enjoyed [specific thing - getting to know you / our conversations / hanging out], and I'd love to take you to dinner for Valentine's. You in?"

3. Playful:
"So... I may or may not have Valentine's plans forming in my head that involve you. Interested?"

**In-Person Scripts:**
[3 natural scripts for asking face-to-face with body language tips]

### Romantic Approaches (For Established Connections)

**For asking a significant other to something special:**
[Templates that acknowledge you're already together but want to plan something meaningful]

### Reading Signals
- Signs they're interested: [list]
- Signs to wait: [list]
- Always respect the answer gracefully

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## SECTION 2: DATE PLANNING

### Based on Your Budget: [BUDGET]

**$ Budget (Under $50) - Thoughtful & Creative:**
- [5 specific ideas based on their interests]
- Example: "Sunset picnic at [local park] with homemade charcuterie"
- Focus on effort and thoughtfulness over spending

**$$ Budget ($50-150) - Nice Experience:**
- [5 specific ideas]
- Restaurant recommendations in [LOCATION]
- Activity + dinner combinations

**$$$ Budget ($150+) - Premium Experience:**
- [5 luxury ideas]
- High-end dining options
- Overnight stays or premium experiences

### Activity Ideas Based on Their Interests: [INTERESTS]

[10 specific date ideas tailored to their hobbies and interests]

### Timeline for the Day

**Sample Schedule:**
- Morning: [activity]
- Lunch: [if applicable]
- Afternoon: [activity or getting ready]
- Dinner: [time and place]
- Evening: [activity or plan]
- Night: [close of the day]

### Restaurant Reservation Tips
- Book by: [date, typically 2 weeks early for Valentine's]
- Backup options: [3 alternatives]
- Special requests to make: [menu notes, table preferences]

### Backup Plans
- Bad weather plan: [indoor alternative]
- Restaurant issue: [backup dining]
- They're not feeling well: [at-home alternative]

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## SECTION 3: CARD & GIFT WRITING

### Card Message Templates

**For a New Relationship (< 6 months):**
[3 message options that are sweet but not overwhelming]

Example:
"[NAME],
I'm really glad I met you. You make me smile more than I expected, and I'm excited to see where this goes.
Happy Valentine's Day.
[YOUR NAME]"

**For an Established Relationship (6 months - 2 years):**
[3 message options that show deeper appreciation]

Example:
"[NAME],
This year with you has been [specific positive thing]. I love [specific thing you love about them]. Thank you for being you.
I love you.
[YOUR NAME]"

**For Long-Term Partners (2+ years, Married):**
[3 message options that acknowledge history and future]

Example:
"[NAME],
[X] years ago, I had no idea I'd be this lucky. You still make me feel [specific feeling]. I'm grateful for you every day, not just today.
I love you more than ever.
[YOUR NAME]"

### Personalization Ideas Based on Their Love Language: [LOVE_LANGUAGE]

**Words of Affirmation:**
- Longer, more detailed letter
- List of specific things you appreciate
- Include quotes from things they've said

**Quality Time:**
- Focus the card on what you'll do together
- Promise of future experiences
- "I can't wait to..."

**Gifts:**
- Card accompanies a thoughtful gift
- Explain why you chose it
- Connect it to a memory

**Acts of Service:**
- Offer to do something specific for them
- "Today is about you - I'm handling everything"
- Coupon book of services

**Physical Touch:**
- Keep the card short and sweet
- Focus on being together
- Include invitation to [appropriate physical affection]

### Gift Ideas Based on Their Interests: [INTERESTS]

[10 specific gift ideas at various price points, connected to their interests]

### Humor vs. Romance Balance

Based on their personality, here's the right ratio:
- Mostly serious, touch of humor: [example]
- Mostly playful, touch of romance: [example]
- Match their vibe: [examples based on their typical communication style]

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## SECTION 4: MAKING IT MEMORABLE

### Surprise Elements to Add
[5 unexpected touches that elevate the day]

Examples:
- Arrange for a song request at dinner
- Leave notes in places they'll find throughout the day
- Coordinate with a friend to deliver something earlier

### Photo & Memory Capture Ideas
- Hire a photographer (secret or planned)
- Set up a photo spot at home
- Create a shared album for the day
- Write down the date details after to remember

### Follow-Up Message (Day After)

**Text the next day:**
"I had the best time yesterday. [Specific favorite moment]. Thank you for being you."

### Planning for the Next Milestone
- What's the next relationship milestone?
- Plant a seed: "Let's make [occasion] even better"
- Keep the momentum going

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## SECTION 5: EMERGENCY SAVES

### Last-Minute Ideas (If You Forgot)
[5 things you can still pull off in 24-48 hours]

### If Plans Fall Through
[How to pivot gracefully and still have a great day]

### If They're Not a "Valentine's Person"
[How to acknowledge the day without overdoing it]

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